Domestic violence is about power and
control. It includes actual or threatened physical attacks, emotional or
psychological attacks, sexual attacks, stalking, kidnapping, false imprisonment
or any criminal offense that results in injury or death. Domestic violence is
between family or household members, or between parents of a child, whether or
not those parents are or have ever been married, or have ever lived together. An
abuser commonly gains advantage by threatening, coercing, intimidating and even
blaming the victim for the abuse, while, at the same time, denying or minimizing
the abusive behavior. The web of control is usually enhanced by isolating the
victim from relationships with friends, family and other support systems.
Typically, the abuser controls decision-making and economic resources including
all family finances and the victim’s ability to work or travel.